|Thirteen Things I Want to Accomplish Before I Die
1…. I want to write and publish a book. Preferably a best selling novel but so long as I write it and an actual company publishes it, I’ll be happy.
2…. I want to take a food based traveling vacation. Think in terms of ‘Feasting on Asphalt’ or ‘Feasting on Waves’. Yes, I know these are Alton Brown trips. However, it is an established fact that I *heart* Alton Brown so does that really matter. 🙂
3…. I want to travel to Ireland. I may never know anything about my birth father and his Irish heritage but I want to go there anyway. Maybe I’ll even mix #2 with #3.
4…. I want to see my sons grown and happy. I don’t care what they are doing, so long as it makes them happy. (And it’s legal – happy and legal. 😉 lol)
5…. I want to grow old with Rob. And not just “old” but like front porch sitting, mashed peas eating, talking about the “old days” ad nauseum OLD.
6…. I want to go back to college and graduate with my BA in English. Then I want to go grad school and graduate with my Masters and/or Doctorate in English. Then in my spare time (in between watching the boys grow up, traveling to Ireland/around the world and getting old with Rob) I want to become an English Professor.
7…. I want to help fight the wars on Domestic Violence and Autism. I want to start a domestic violence shelter with everything all under one roof – legal assistance, housing, counseling, the whole she-bang. And then I want to help the government, the insurance companies and the public school systems better understand Autism. I want the ins co to understand that by not treating Autism they are causing more issues because most parents cannot afford the treatments. I want the public school systems to stop seeing dollar signs when they hear “Autism” mentioned and understand that you cannot place an Autistic child in a ‘special needs’ classroom and expect them to operate completely under your guidelines and rules simply because it will make your lives easier. Likewise, you then cannot place said child(ren) in restraint chairs or in-school suspension because they “misbehaved”. (Yes, sadly this does happen. A lot.) But I digress…
8…. I want to ride in a limo. I’ve never been in one and I think it would be cool.
9…. I want to take a cross country trip in a train. Then I want to come home in a bus. Like a decked out tour bus. I just think it would be cool.
10…. I want to find a way to truly share with my boys just how special my Granny was. I want them to feel as if they know her, even though they will never get the chance.
11…. I want to continue to keep journals (handwritten) and pack them up so they are in order when the time comes for them to be passed on.
12…. I want to learn and grow beyond then need for cynicism as a form of protection. It’s exhausting to try and maintain that level of constant vigilance.
13…. I want to leave this world knowing that my boys felt loved. I want to leave this world, leaving my boys with heads full of memories, hearts full of love and compassion, and souls at peace with my passing because I had a good life and I helped teach them how to have the same.
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